tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6361215320362852003.post1821212196573344673..comments2023-10-29T03:13:04.134-07:00Comments on The Fallopian Tube Monster: Don't You Want Somebody To Love/Have Sex With?Laurax Olsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04554078393996153127noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6361215320362852003.post-57493538669458594122008-03-07T08:04:00.000-08:002008-03-07T08:04:00.000-08:00Laura(x),I'm glad that you talked about specific e...Laura(x),<BR/>I'm glad that you talked about specific examples Allen brought up because they also left me feeling conflicted/emotional/angry.<BR/><BR/>Caitlin's lack of interest in sex with her long-term boyfriend made me feel really sad. I feel like sex and sexual attraction are really important aspects of a relationship, and that that has disappeared over time for her really concerns me. We should give her a copy of CAKE.<BR/><BR/>One clip that really ticked me off was on page 220, the interview with Chris and Cam, where Chris said "I wanted to have sex with her and Cam said 'no' and then we talked for another two hours maybe (laugh) and uhm uhm and then Cam said 'yes'". THIS MADE ME SO MAD. I wish that he had respected her when she said no rather than coercing her into having sex with him. AHHH. I am so angry! <BR/><BR/>Anna's story also made me mad. I don't think that cheating is okay. I feel that if you have that strong of sexual feelings for someone besides your partner, and you intend to act on them, your partner deserves to know this. <BR/><BR/>It was interesting to see Allen's main argument and then the excerpts from the interviews to illustrate what we are trying to move away from, what we are seeking, and what would be too much change.Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13604435777307707917noreply@blogger.com